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Why I Wasted Years Waiting to Start Writing (And What Finally Got Me Moving)

What I wish someone had told me about starting.
Why I Wasted Years Waiting to Start Writing (And What Finally Got Me Moving)

I stared at the blank document for thirty minutes.

Cursor blinking. Ideas swirling. Fingers frozen above the keyboard.

I had notes scattered across my desk. Good ideas, too. But every time I started typing, I'd delete the sentence and start over. This went on for weeks.

The problem wasn't that I didn't know what to write. The problem was I thought my first piece had to be perfect.

The Perfect Moment That Never Comes

For years, I told myself I'd start writing when:

  • I had more experience
  • I figured out my niche
  • I found the perfect topic
  • I felt ready

None of those things ever happened. I was waiting for permission that nobody was going to give me.

Meanwhile, people with less experience were publishing daily and building audiences while I was still planning.

What Finally Broke the Paralysis

One Tuesday morning, I was frustrated about a problem at work. Instead of complaining to my coworker, I opened Google Docs and wrote 400 words about it.

Nothing fancy. No grand insights. Just me explaining what was bothering me and how I was dealing with it.

I posted it on Medium without editing it to death.

Three people commented. One person said it helped them with a similar problem.

That's when it clicked: I didn't need to be profound. I just needed to be helpful.

The Truth About Starting

Your first piece doesn't need to change anyone's life. It needs to solve one small problem for one person.

Here's what I wish someone had told me:

Perfect timing doesn't exist. There will always be something you don't know, some skill you haven't mastered, some experience you haven't had.

Your first draft is supposed to suck. That's why it's called a first draft. The magic happens in editing, not in the initial writing.

Nobody cares about your mistakes as much as you do. Most people are too busy with their own problems to scrutinize your writing.

You learn by doing, not by planning. I learned more about writing in my first month of publishing than in two years of reading about it.

The Simple System That Works

Stop waiting for inspiration. Build a system instead.

Pick a time: I write for 15 minutes every morning before checking email.

Lower the bar: My goal is 200 words, not 2,000. Small progress beats no progress.

Embrace the mess: I let my first drafts be terrible. I can fix bad writing, but I can't fix a blank page.

Publish before you're ready: If you wait until you feel ready, you'll never start.

What to Write About

Start with problems you've actually solved:

  • Something that frustrated you and how you fixed it
  • A mistake you made and what you learned
  • A tool or process that works for you
  • An insight that changed how you think about something

Don't try to be original. Try to be useful.

The Momentum Effect

Here's what happens when you start writing regularly:

Week 1: Everything feels awkward and forced

Week 2: You start finding your rhythm

Week 4: Ideas come more easily

Week 8: Writing becomes a habit, not a struggle

Week 12: You can't believe you waited so long to start

But none of this happens if you don't publish that first terrible piece.

Your Next 15 Minutes

Open a document right now. Set a timer for 15 minutes.

Write about one problem you solved recently. Don't edit while you write. Don't worry about making it perfect.

When the timer goes off, read it once, fix obvious errors, and publish it somewhere.

Done is better than perfect. Always.

The writers you admire all started with terrible first pieces. The difference between them and everyone else? They hit publish anyway.

What problem did you solve this week that someone else might be struggling with? That's your first post. Write it today.


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